Every day, literally thousands of people register for online dating sites looking for other people just like you. Unfortunately, no matter how much they would love to find you, the chances of that happening are slim to none.
Here’s the reason why: While men and women are joining these sites in rapid numbers looking for love… thousands and thousands of other men and women are joining these sites as well. No matter how great of a person you are… it’s nearly impossible not to “blend in” with all those other people.
Fortunately, there is a solution.
You have to make your online personal ad rise above the “clutter”. Over the next few weeks, I will post articles here that show you how to do that, so that your personal ad will start getting the attention it deserves.
Follow these strategies closely and your ad will be so compelling that people will have no choice but to write you in response… even if they’re getting hundreds of emails a day from others
So let's get started with the first tip.
FACT: If you don’t have exactly the right kind of photos in your ad, you will not meet anyone through online personals.
What you will get is emails from women who will ask you to give them just $19.95 to check them out on their new webcams. (Yes, she is just trying to get you to join a porn site).
Here on our Age Gap Dating Personals site, we allow you to post many photos on your profile, so fill it up with pictures! The more interesting photos you have, the more likely someone is to connect with one of them and feel compelled to write you or return an email from you.
Photos of you in exotic places, doing exciting things like skydiving or rock climbing, and pictures of you with animals can really separate you from the pack… and often double the amount of emails you receive.
One guy wrote in to tell me he put up a picture of himself with a dolphin and got more responses in one day than he had in the months before he posted the photo.
Think outside the box. Show parts of your life that make you unique, and you’ll be one step ahead of everyone else.
